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Exhausted from coping
Life looks manageable from the outside, but it takes everything you have to keep it that way.

ADHD & AuDHD counselling and coaching for adults
Support for adults who can look as though they are coping while feeling worn out by the effort. Space to understand what is happening, with practical help for everyday life, work and relationships.
A free 30-minute phone conversation. No obligation.
A place to start
You are welcome if you are diagnosed, waiting for assessment, newly diagnosed or exploring whether ADHD or AuDHD helps explain your experience.
You do not need a neat story, a diagnosis or a list of goals before reaching out.
This might be you
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Life looks manageable from the outside, but it takes everything you have to keep it that way.
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The diagnosis explains a lot. It does not automatically make daily life, work or relationships easier.
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You understand the patterns. You need support turning that insight into something workable in real life.
The ADHD Roadmap
There is no fixed programme to perform perfectly. This is a flexible framework for making sense of what is happening and finding changes that are possible in real life.
What sits beneath the overwhelm, avoidance, anger, shutdown or crash?
We look at capacity, pressure, recovery and what is making everything feel harder.
Simple tools, boundaries and ways of working that have a chance of lasting.
Bring the pieces together around the life, relationships and work you want.
Working together
For burnout, emotional overwhelm, masking, shutdown, self-blame, people-pleasing, relationship difficulties and life before or after diagnosis.
Some sessions need space to understand the deeper pattern. Others focus on decisions, boundaries and practical next steps. We find the balance that is useful to you.
Book a free intro callWhen ADHD, different needs or the everyday load are causing friction, we make room for both partners and look at the pattern between you.
Couples work is offered separately from individual counselling.
Ask about couples sessions
About Michael
I am Michael Dodden, an NCPS-registered counsellor and coach based in Norwich. Before this work, I spent 30 years in IT and high-pressure working environments.
I work with the burnout, masking, emotional intensity, shutdown, overthinking and self-blame that can sit behind an outwardly capable life.
You do not need to arrive organised, have the right words or know exactly where to begin.
More about meStarting together
A 30-minute phone call to talk about what brings you here and whether working together feels like a good fit.
£65 per 55-minute session. Online across the UK or in person in Norwich.
When you are ready
Book a free intro call, or email if you would rather make first contact in writing.